HELP please.

[mozartfan14]

Hello,
I am 14 years old and i am currently attending scecondary school in the United Kingdom. I had been having a relationship with a boy with asperger's but he ended the relationship after 2 months, he said that "... i am fed up with the routinal mettings with you, you also go on and on about the same subject and i can not process this, also your knowledge mirrors mine this is abnormal especially for a girl..." I have often been told i am unsociable and not flexible with change to my routine.
The first example of when i felt different or extremly confused was when i was attending primary school. I was sat in the classroom unable to concentrate on the work i had recived, so i put my hands over my ears, my classroom teacher came over and told me i was being extremly rude because he was talking, i got extremly confused and ran out of the classroom onto the field, sat down rocked forward and backward counting, then mrs lambart tolk me to the beehive to clam down.
Now i am in secondry school i am much different i extremly want friends but relationships with peers seem to stop after a couple of days due to them not wanting to be my friend. I am extremly loney. When i came across asperger's syndrome it seemed to explain me; following my discovery i tolk many tests online each saying i was extremly likely to obtain it.
I am good at the piano and extremly good at art, i am also in top set in everything. I am told regualy to give eye contact and i have to force myself to do this ( i do not see how this is rude because its not insulting anyone or messing up anyones lives.) I am also told repetivly by my mother that i am extremly obsessive compolsive, example if i can not have my weetabix i will not eat for that day and i will not eat weetabix if i don't have the right spoon.
I am told i am extremly obsessive about mozart and i know every fact about him ( mozart is great) and i have a very good memory i learned pi to 450dp in 5 days also i am extremly clumpsy, falling over all the time.
Aparently its also abnormal to only wear cloths 50% or above cotton clothing ( i don't think its abnormal because otherwise i have irratable skin.) I did talk to my mum about the possiblity but she just said because i was adopted i had suffred trauma( although never diagnossed and many people disagree with this) she said that although i strongly could be she does not want her child to be sterotyped as nerotypical.
I feel extremly alone and weird.
What should i do?
My ex-boyfirend ( the aspi) said to speak to the asd centre at school but i don't know them and so i would not know how to start the conversation. I can not go see doctor other wise mother would find out.

[Gareth Roberts]

Your best bet is to talk to your mum, she can help you out with things if needs be. Just tell her to pop onto the website... and let her make her assumptions from what other people say here. :-)

Have you done the aspergers quiz (have a search for it on the forum)?